Samosa Saga

 Sharing a blogspot from my digital friend Raju Korti. I'm humbled by the way he has penned down his observations.😌

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NOTHING IS PERMANENT

When you view the series of events that you call life, the only time you need/want help coping with then is when they're undesirable.

A lot of us simply can't comprehend while we're enduring a vicious storm that it will certainly be followed up by a warm sunny day.

The truth of the matter remains; if you stay rigid despite the howling winds of times you will be the one still standing when they subside.

Not only to survive another day but to appreciate and inspire those who lack your fight & fortitude. In short, look at what is hindering your happiness and remember: this too shall pass.

OUR PROBLEMS ARE SELF MADE

The mind plays a havoc. Mostly, the severity of the issues which we worry about is not so severe in reality. When we don't find a solution to our imaginary problems, it becomes more complex. A situation which doesn't even exists occupies a lot of our mind space and kills our time too. There is no remedy to a problem which is non-existent. As such, the time spent on finding a solution actually exaggerate the size of the problem. The only way to handle such a situation is to take your mind off it. The only way to kill the disturbing thought is to starve it of your attention. The mind is the cause as well as the solution

VALUE OF MONEY

Money is the only variable you will have in life. It might take some time but you will get rich one day for sure. So, the important thing is to focus on other things in life; like health, relationships, learning, and self-development. The function of money is to give you mental comfort as a major part of your wealth will remain unused. On the contrary, if you look for peace, happiness, and self-development, it will pay rich dividends every day of your life. Today, the uncertainty of money may make you insecure but tomorrow the value of happiness and peace will be valued much more

ALIGN YOUR EXPECTATIONS WITH YOUR ACTIONS

Life is anything but predictable. We keep on trying to control the events and secure our future. Still, the outcome could be very different. Yes, what we do today definitely makes an impact on tomorrows. Still, the results could surprise us. Sometimes, they are better than expected. Sometimes, it's nowhere near what we hoped. It is because, many times, our expectations are not aligned with our own action and we simply pray for things to fall in place. Also, a part of our life is dependent upon other people's action and behavior which we can't control. We know we can't fix tomorrows. Still, we spend a major part of life trying to do exactly that.

ARE WE INDEPENDENT?

We have everything but independence. Living in a free country or having power, wealth, position and respect is in no way a proof of freedom. When we fake our personality for some shallow appreciation, when we support the company we work for in public though we are privy to its misconduct, when we speak in favor of those whom we are fundamentally against just because we derive some personal benefit, we compromise our freedom. The modern society is the ruler and we all are its slave and the paradox is; no one is aware and no one is complaining

FOCUS AND BE THE BEST

I was not sure I wanted to be self-dependent or rely on the outside world. From cleaning my room to cooking food; from coding my website to booking my travel tickets; from learning my own dance moves to fixing the faulty cabinet; there was so much to do. When I tried to do it all by myself, I was short on time and expertise. When I relied on others, many a time the results were not as per my expectations. Over time, I decided to focus on a few things in which I can be the world's best and leave everything else to others. I think being the best in something is the best use of life

LISTEN TO YOUR CONSCIENCE

Harness the power of the mind. It can change crisis into opportunity in a matter of seconds. Avail the strength of focus. It can make a huge task look a boy's day out. Preserve the calmness of humility. It can win you respect from the whole world. Believe in the effectiveness of discipline. It makes impossible very much doable. Surrender to the beats of your heart. It will fill your life with love. Respect the voice of your soul. It will ensure that you always walk on the right track

LIVE LIFE ON YOUR TERMS

No matter who you are and what you do, you have a choice to spend a part of your life the way you want it. I call it 'Independent Life'. Reading, watching movies, spending time with family and friends, playing a sport, pursuing a hobby, volunteering for social work, etc; are all examples of things we can do without being dependent on anyone else. So, rather than complaining and being consumed by your targets, responsibilities, reporting, and duties; increase the part of your independent life. Once you are able to live many hours a day on your own terms, you will even enjoy the part which is dependent and more challenging

BENEFITS OF TAKING INFORMED DECISION

I don't suffer from indecision. Many times, I intentionally postpone them. I understand my responsibility and so I make informed decisions.

People may misunderstand my silence but I know what I am doing. Mine will be the last word on many things and so I evaluate all consequences which only I could see. Sometimes, delaying a decision affects me negatively. Still, I try to look at the long-term picture taking everyone into account. When I ignore certain things it doesn't mean I am blind. It is my courage to restrain the use of my power to decide as I could see a better long-term benefit for everyone involved.

START TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE CHOICES

Life is simply a product of what we have always wanted. When things fall in place we take credit for the same saying we worked hard for it. Yes, that's true. When certain results are not as per our expectations, we blame luck and circumstances for it. Well, could be. But mostly, it is because of the choices we made in the past and things we did unconsciously. Reflect on your actions, habits, routine and you will find a logical reason for everything that is happening in life. When we start taking responsibility for the results, we will start making better choices

FOCUS ON POSITIVITY

t starts with a single disturbing thought. It carries with it a storm of unending thoughts about things that can go wrong in life. The mind gets engulfed with negative vibrations. Every time unpleasant examples and experiences start revolving in front of eyes. We all face it at times. The best way to overcome this is to fight back as soon as you see the first symptom. Engage the mind somewhere else. Get involved in an activity. Think about the good times and the promise that the future holds. It is not so easy though. It needs a lot of practice.

ENJOY YOUR STRENGTHS AND ACCEPT YOUR WEAKNESSES

have my strength and weaknesses. I will admit, I tried hard to overcome my shortcomings all my life. I was able to improve too. However, I started noticing that there was no end to improvement. For every weakness I overcame, two new issues surfaced. I kept working on them. I became obsessed with it. It was endless. It came to a point where it became a burden. Then I stopped. I made peace with myself that I am not perfect. I stopped trying hard. I decided not to consume my entire life just to become better and better at everything. I decided to enjoy my strength and accept my weaknesses. Life is peaceful ever since

PAY ATTENTION TO OTHERS

Stop telling. No one is interested in your story. Even if someone is listening, it's because they want to share their story with you. No one is interested in your success. If they appreciate you, it's because they are being courteous to you. Actually, they are already thinking how should they get ahead of you. People are focused on their own life. Change your stance. Instead of talking about yourself, pay attention to others. Help them achieve their goals. Be genuinely interested in their success. Maybe it will start a movement. Be the change.

THE MEDIUM CAN CHANGE THE MESSAGE

Years ago an elderly illiterate carpenter received some mail and he was very upset about it. A letter was a very unusual thing in his life and he was worried about what might be in it. So he hurried over to the butcher shop and the rough-voice muscle man behind the counter read it aloud.
“This is a letter from your son,” he shouted, “and it says: “Dear Dad, I am sick and haven’t a single cent. Send me some money quick. Your son, Bill.”
Influenced by the hard tones of the reader, the carpenter became red with rage and exploded, “Who does the kid think he is, telling me what to do? I won’t give him a cent.”
In a fit of anger the carpenter walked back home. But along the way, he met his friend the tailor. He stopped him and confided, “I want to show you this letter my boy sent to me.”
The tailor took the letter and read it aloud in his usual calm and cultured way. Suddenly the message sounded different from the carpenter. It came across and appealing and plaintive. It left the carpenter extremely saddened. “Poor Bill,” he said with worry in his voice. “He’s in bad shape. I’d better send him some cash - fast!
So off he went to wire some money for his son.

The message can often depend on the medium!

ASK FOR HELP, IT IS NOT A SIGN OF WEAKNESS

Asking for help doesn't mean weakness. It may be a sign of strength. Tears don't always mean pain. It could be a reward for lifelong sacrifice. Saying sorry doesn't mean someone is wrong. It could be a sign of giving respect. Silence should not be taken as defeat. It could be a winning statement. Surrender is not always a loss. It could be the highest point in love. Negotiating peace is not a reflection of being fearful. It could be a sign of courage for the greater good.

LEAVE A LEGACY

As you grow old, there will come a moment in your life when you will grapple with this thought; 'what did I do in my life'? What did I give to this world? While you may boast of the accomplishments outside, you will feel a hollowness inside. You will start questioning the purpose of your existence. The social image you created will seem insignificant. The wealth you amassed will not give you peace. The medals you won will become an old story. Ultimately, the urge to make a difference in people's life will surround you. The day you feel this, your life begins

TINK BEFORE GIVING ADVICE

People are not looking for advice. People are not looking for feedback. They are looking for an endorsement of their own view. Even when they ask for guidance and opinion, they don't really mean it. Mostly, it's an eyewash. They want to look good in the eyes of the world. Yes, there are few who really want to improve and care for advice. Such people are humble, forward-looking and achieve magical growth. So, before you offer your advice to someone, be sure who is asking

GIVE UP THE NEED TO PROVE YOURSELF

It's good to believe in self. It's good to perform your best. It's good to take up challenges. It's good to beat the benchmark. However, becoming obsessed to prove your worth again and again to the world is a blind race. It will never end. If you try to win the praise of everyone over and over again, your focus will shift from performance to winning. Winning is not bad but the underlying objective is far more important. Never give up the urge to do your best. But giving up the need to prove again and again is called courage

SERVE SELFLESSLY

There are few but they exist. They put other people's interest first. So much so that they forget their own benefit. The general world calls them fools. Still, they are happy doing what they think is right. The value they create is immense but they don't know their own worth. They sell their expertise for stones though they are worth more than diamonds. They may look fragile from outside but their resilience is difficult to conquer. They look poor to many but their soul is rich. In a world which is directionless, they live with a purpose. They are here to do the right thing for the people they serve