Isn't it strange that people do not let go of things they are so fond of ? It could be a relationship or things they treasure ? Life is so ironic as when people actually fall in love at first sight and then next they find it has turned sour. 

Why does it happen ? No one knows for sure.There could be many reasons. It could be just coincidence. Or it could be very nature of human beings, which does not allow people to let go. Or is it decided by GOD Almighty ? What is popularly called as fate ?

The illogical sense of reasoning of humans obviously does not provide any answer or reasoning The reality is it is the feelings that work for people. Within you, what is of importance is how you feel about others and not  how they feel about you. It is not reciprocal. 

Sages have been advising from time immemorial " Life is all about letting go.' But do we really let go ?

The fact is that letting go is the most hardest things in life. No matter how much we hold back, tears will always be there.

Random Thoughts

WHY THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE

We look hither and yon, and pine for what we've not/ Our deepest longings are never for what we've got...

Anecdote from a person who worked in Sweden for Volvo


The first time I was in Sweden , one of my colleagues picked me up at the hotel every morning. It was September, bit cold and snowy. We would arrive early at the company and he would park far away from the entrance (2000 employees drive their car to work). The first day, I didn't say anything,either the second or third. One morning I asked, "Do you have a fixed parking space? I've noticed we park far from the entrance even when there are no other cars in the lot." To which he replied, "Since we're here early we'll have time to walk, and whoever gets in late will be late and need a
place closer to the door. Don't you think?

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Inspirations

"This life is short, the vanities of the world are transient, but they alone live who live for others, the rest are more dead than alive." "In this world always take the position of the giver. Give everything and look for no return. Give love, give help, give service, give any little thing you can, but keep out barter." Swami Vivekanand

When you lack conviction, it shows

At major turning points in life, destiny calls upon you to take decisive action. There's no light in the tunnel; just a glimmer of hope, and the future is uncertain. What matters is whether you have the power of conviction , steely determination and the will to proceed, for better or worse. When an individual feels intensely throttled in an organization,it is better to plan and leave quietly -- not issue threats , not imagine that you are indispensable and not make a nuisance of yourself, The future may be tough in the new environment, but if you have the power of conviction , it is unlikely to be stiffing. When you lack the power of conviction, it shows.

Jealousy

Whether warranted or unwarranted, jealousy does not make the person bad or good. It simply indicates a lack of security , either in yourself or your relationship and preys on proving that others will be chosen or preferred over you. It is nothing more than the fear that you have "less" value. Clearly it's a sign that some thing that needs fixing, so hiding it or ignoring it will only make things worse. It is a negative , angry , destructive emotion and your relationship will suffer for it, as it often translates into an excuse for inappropriate , unacceptable, unethical and even violent behavior. Analyze the seeds of your jealousy and insecurity. For e.g. what do you feel insecure about? Do you doubt your partners' attraction or love for you ? But didn't your partner choose you over all others ? Therefore, how do you believe you are unattractive , unappealing or uninteresting ? In fact, jealousy itself is unattractive, wearisome and a relationship breaker ! Do yourself and your relationship a favor by reminding yourself of all your plus points , reveling in being you and and creating a positive environment for your relationship to bloom in .