Jealousy

Whether warranted or unwarranted, jealousy does not make the person bad or good. It simply indicates a lack of security , either in yourself or your relationship and preys on proving that others will be chosen or preferred over you. It is nothing more than the fear that you have "less" value. Clearly it's a sign that some thing that needs fixing, so hiding it or ignoring it will only make things worse. It is a negative , angry , destructive emotion and your relationship will suffer for it, as it often translates into an excuse for inappropriate , unacceptable, unethical and even violent behavior. Analyze the seeds of your jealousy and insecurity. For e.g. what do you feel insecure about? Do you doubt your partners' attraction or love for you ? But didn't your partner choose you over all others ? Therefore, how do you believe you are unattractive , unappealing or uninteresting ? In fact, jealousy itself is unattractive, wearisome and a relationship breaker ! Do yourself and your relationship a favor by reminding yourself of all your plus points , reveling in being you and and creating a positive environment for your relationship to bloom in .