Why are Indian women stressed out !!

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Inspirations

"This life is short, the vanities of the world are transient, but they alone live who live for others, the rest are more dead than alive." "In this world always take the position of the giver. Give everything and look for no return. Give love, give help, give service, give any little thing you can, but keep out barter." Swami Vivekanand

When you lack conviction, it shows

At major turning points in life, destiny calls upon you to take decisive action. There's no light in the tunnel; just a glimmer of hope, and the future is uncertain. What matters is whether you have the power of conviction , steely determination and the will to proceed, for better or worse. When an individual feels intensely throttled in an organization,it is better to plan and leave quietly -- not issue threats , not imagine that you are indispensable and not make a nuisance of yourself, The future may be tough in the new environment, but if you have the power of conviction , it is unlikely to be stiffing. When you lack the power of conviction, it shows.

Jealousy

Whether warranted or unwarranted, jealousy does not make the person bad or good. It simply indicates a lack of security , either in yourself or your relationship and preys on proving that others will be chosen or preferred over you. It is nothing more than the fear that you have "less" value. Clearly it's a sign that some thing that needs fixing, so hiding it or ignoring it will only make things worse. It is a negative , angry , destructive emotion and your relationship will suffer for it, as it often translates into an excuse for inappropriate , unacceptable, unethical and even violent behavior. Analyze the seeds of your jealousy and insecurity. For e.g. what do you feel insecure about? Do you doubt your partners' attraction or love for you ? But didn't your partner choose you over all others ? Therefore, how do you believe you are unattractive , unappealing or uninteresting ? In fact, jealousy itself is unattractive, wearisome and a relationship breaker ! Do yourself and your relationship a favor by reminding yourself of all your plus points , reveling in being you and and creating a positive environment for your relationship to bloom in .

Quotes

When Hanuman became despondent at not finding Sita, he realized two things: first, that there is negative value in being despondent. Second, that there is positive value in action arising from confronting reality