ravisuno: me ,myself

ravisuno: me ,myself

Insult etc.

Insult , it is said , is like a fake coin or a currency note.

It is upto us to accept it or reject it .

Why should an action or a statement made by others hurt you and then you keep thinking the reasons as to why he said that or what made him say that or what is it that has made him say that.



I remember a quote I read long time back which really impressed me and has stuck to my memory . It goes like this :



WHILE YOU MAY BE AWAKE AT NIGHT, PONDERING OVER WHAT SOMEONE HAS SAID TO YOU, YOUR CRITIC MAY BE BLISSFULLY ASLEEP, GENUINELY UNAWARE OF THE INTERPRETAIONS YOU HAVE PLACED ON HIS WORDS.

One need not keep on harping and thinking on such statements. The true philospophy is

SUNO SABKI PAR KARO WOH JO TUMHARA MANN CHAHE

Loneliness

It is said that when you are alone with yourself, you try to do a reacap of your actitivites of past and then keep thinking as to why you did that, or what would have happened if you had not done that etc. etc.
Being alone, also allows to you to think of new ways of doing things.
Everything is under your control and it is your mind which goes here and there , keeps searching for solutions to problems or explanations for the the actions you have taken in the past, and in the process, try to justify each and every action.
Positive thoughts always helps you in life and this is also my philosophy in life
Whenever a negative comes to my mind I always question and ask :-
" Who allowed you to enter my mind ? "
"Did you take my permission ?"
"You have no right to be in this place and therefore the sooner you get out of this place the better it would be "

Experience

Everyday is an experience, whether it is interaction with colleagues, students or people in general. From the interaction I have had with students, I have gained so much about different things in life. They are so full of life and energy, coming from different backgrounds, bringing their own experiences, fears and joys which they want to share with you and at the same time learn new things
Guiding, motivating and leading them to a path of self fulfillment is such a lovely experience and when you hear a thank you note from them it is really satisfying and gratifying. You feel that by making some suggestions, you have made a difference in their life
Sometimes , during the interactions, you move quite close to them and then some people draw a different meaning of such interactions. From my point of view, whenever I have come closer to any one of them, the feeling or intention is only to help them in their personal and professional life. By being one of them and sharing their happiness , you get tremendous joy. You also want to share their sorrows with the sole objective of consoling and giving them courage to face the world.

Money looses its importance under such cirumstances and the only thing that counts is their happiness and their upliftment and growth in life , so that they can face the challenges and also become a better human being

Random Thoughts

me ,myself

have been wanting to shout at the top of my voice abt my existnence... well here i am , after a long time hmmm................. guesss the number of years , months that have elapsed before I stopped writing diary .................