NOTHING IS PERMANENT
When you view the series of events that you call life, the only time you need/want help coping with then is when they're undesirable.
A lot of us simply can't comprehend while we're enduring a vicious storm that it will certainly be followed up by a warm sunny day.
The truth of the matter remains; if you stay rigid despite the howling winds of times you will be the one still standing when they subside.
Not only to survive another day but to appreciate and inspire those who lack your fight & fortitude. In short, look at what is hindering your happiness and remember: this too shall pass.