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Monday, February 11, 2013


many of us live under the expectations of our parents, teachers and friends when young. We seldom get to do the things that we really like and love and are under so much pressure and stress  that by the age of 20, we get tired and decide to dump this load. Being free of the stress and pressure, we work enthusiastically and dream ambitious wishes. But by the time we reach 40 years old, we start to lose our vision and dreams. We begin to feel unsatisfied and start to complain and criticize.

We live life as a misery as we are never satisfied. Reaching 60, we realize that we have little left for complaining anymore, and we begin to walk the final episode in peace and calmness. We think that there is nothing left to disappoint us, only to realize that we could not rest in peace because we have an unfulfilled dream ...... a dream we abandoned 60 years ago. 

So what is your dream? Follow your dreams, so that you will not live with regrets.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Isn't it strange that people do not let go of things they are so fond of ? It could be a relationship or things they treasure ? Life is so ironic as when people actually fall in love at first sight and then next they find it has turned sour. 
Why does it happen ? No one knows for sure.There could be many reasons. It could be just coincidence. Or it could be very nature of human beings, which does not allow people to let go. Or is it decided by GOD Almighty ? What is popularly called as fate ?
The illogical sense of reasoning of humans obviously does not provide any answer or reasoning The reality is it is the feelings that work for people. Within you, what is of importance is how you feel about others and not  how they feel about you. It is not reciprocal. 
Sages have been advising from time immemorial " Life is all about letting go.' But do we really let go ?
The fact is that letting go is the most hardest things in life. No matter how much we hold back, tears will always be there.

Saturday, August 4, 2012

Random Thoughts


We look hither and yon, and pine for what we've not/ Our deepest longings are never for what we've got...
Anecdote from a person who worked in Sweden for Volvo

The first time I was in Sweden , one of my colleagues picked me up at the hotel every morning. It was September, bit cold and snowy. We would arrive early at the company and he would park far away from the entrance (2000 employees drive their car to work). The first day, I didn't say anything,either the second or third. One morning I asked, "Do you have a fixed parking space? I've noticed we park far from the entrance even when there are no other cars in the lot." To which he replied, "Since we're here early we'll have time to walk, and whoever gets in late will be late and need a
place closer to the door. Don't you think?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Why are Indian women stressed out !!

A must read for all ladies ( and men too ) !! http://bit.ly/pTFGOD


"This life is short, the vanities of the world are transient, but they alone live who live for others, the rest are more dead than alive." "In this world always take the position of the giver. Give everything and look for no return. Give love, give help, give service, give any little thing you can, but keep out barter." Swami Vivekanand

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

When you lack conviction, it shows

At major turning points in life, destiny calls upon you to take decisive action. There's no light in the tunnel; just a glimmer of hope, and the future is uncertain. What matters is whether you have the power of conviction , steely determination and the will to proceed, for better or worse. When an individual feels intensely throttled in an organization,it is better to plan and leave quietly -- not issue threats , not imagine that you are indispensable and not make a nuisance of yourself, The future may be tough in the new environment, but if you have the power of conviction , it is unlikely to be stiffing. When you lack the power of conviction, it shows.